i am audacious. i am she.

an idea so daring and so audaciously tempting that a shiver of excitement quivered through her.

When you require another individual for your survival, you are a parasite on that individual. There is no choice, no freedom involved in your relationship. It is a matter of ego rather than love. Love is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other only when they are quite capable of living without each other, but choose to live with each other.

Music to my ears

I love it when there’s so much bass in my headphones I can feel the pressure rebound.

You know how swimmers/bikinis/speedos/boardies are acceptable beachwear, but anywhere else it’s kind of awkward and like wearing underwear? Yeh. So when do social media become a beach?

You know how swimmers/bikinis/speedos/boardies are acceptable beachwear, but anywhere else it’s kind of awkward and like wearing underwear? Yeh. So when do social media become a beach?

If there is unhappiness in you, first you need to acknowledge that it is there. But don’t say “I’m unhappy.” Unhappiness has nothing to do with who you are. Say: “There is unhappiness in me.” Then investigate it. A situation you find yourself in may have something to do with it. Action may be required to change the situation or remove yourself from it. If there is nothing you can do, face what is and say, “Well, right now, this is how it is. I can either accept it, or make myself miserable.” The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it.

Eckhart Tolle

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You know how swimmers/bikinis/speedos are suitable to wear at the beach, but anywhere else it’s just like wearing underwear? Well facebook isn’t a beach, so then doesn’t it become inappropriate to galavant around on facebook flaunting your underwear.

Self Destructive.

I see and dig deeper because it isn’t the same. Not even close. 

Day 30: This isn’t goodbye, I know you still got my back. Brother; a person who is there when you need him; someone who picks you up when you fall; a person who sticks up for you when no one else will; a brother is always a friend. P.S. You were so much my teacher because like a true little sis, I looked up to you and wanted to be like you. #30daysofzak #zakncheese

Day 30: This isn’t goodbye, I know you still got my back. Brother; a person who is there when you need him; someone who picks you up when you fall; a person who sticks up for you when no one else will; a brother is always a friend. P.S. You were so much my teacher because like a true little sis, I looked up to you and wanted to be like you. #30daysofzak #zakncheese

Actually, I miss doing a hell of a lot of things with you, especially “going down to yanship” and sitting in the garage yarning, or at club Kooyong having our d&m’s until early hours of the morning…it’s been a pleasure sharing the yanchep chronicles with your folks #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Actually, I miss doing a hell of a lot of things with you, especially “going down to yanship” and sitting in the garage yarning, or at club Kooyong having our d&m’s until early hours of the morning…it’s been a pleasure sharing the yanchep chronicles with your folks #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 29: Not just me, but your fav bands miss being at gigs with you too ;) More props for ya! #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 29: Not just me, but your fav bands miss being at gigs with you too ;) More props for ya! #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 28: ‘Calling friends names in different voices until they hear you’ (or decide to stop ignoring you)…cos there was that one tone that you started with, and I knew stirring was to follow. If that failed…you’d mess with the hair! #zakncheese #30daysofzak (slowing down on the count as i don’t want it to end)

Day 28: ‘Calling friends names in different voices until they hear you’ (or decide to stop ignoring you)…cos there was that one tone that you started with, and I knew stirring was to follow. If that failed…you’d mess with the hair! #zakncheese #30daysofzak (slowing down on the count as i don’t want it to end)

Day 27: We didn’t have many tiffs, and it was almost impossible because you thought I was too nice and couldn’t take me seriously (I know Larry, it’s my own fault for always giggling at him hehe). But, there was that one time I un-brothered you on facebook so you knew I meant business, and “oh lordy, it’s a fire! I thought somebody was bbqing”. From then on it remained in your ammunition and you took ages to re-add me. You know you never stopped being my brother, I just had to show you who’s boss. Booyah. #30daysofzak #zakncheese #wordszakdisliked

Day 27: We didn’t have many tiffs, and it was almost impossible because you thought I was too nice and couldn’t take me seriously (I know Larry, it’s my own fault for always giggling at him hehe). But, there was that one time I un-brothered you on facebook so you knew I meant business, and “oh lordy, it’s a fire! I thought somebody was bbqing”. From then on it remained in your ammunition and you took ages to re-add me. You know you never stopped being my brother, I just had to show you who’s boss. Booyah. #30daysofzak #zakncheese #wordszakdisliked

Day 27: Your passion for learning (and google-ing that which you did not know right then and there) prompted me to research your name. An inspiring teacher you were; helping me with web design, graphic design, drumming, photography, hacky sack, 8ball and kelly pool, surfing and camping, relationships and personal growth. After all, I wouldn’t be as discerning as I am now if it wasn’t for the ridiculous stories you told me…to see just how gullible I could be :D #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 27: Your passion for learning (and google-ing that which you did not know right then and there) prompted me to research your name. An inspiring teacher you were; helping me with web design, graphic design, drumming, photography, hacky sack, 8ball and kelly pool, surfing and camping, relationships and personal growth. After all, I wouldn’t be as discerning as I am now if it wasn’t for the ridiculous stories you told me…to see just how gullible I could be :D #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 26: You were gagging for your electronic drum kit so bad (I was pretty excited too), so we picked it up…then you told me you had no where to put it yet, so we set it up at my house and there it stayed for a while. You let me babysit, play, and helped me learn…you were always an encouraging, patient teacher who explained things until I got it. Even with simple things like card games heh. You were never selfish and always happy to contribute to my happiness. #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 26: You were gagging for your electronic drum kit so bad (I was pretty excited too), so we picked it up…then you told me you had no where to put it yet, so we set it up at my house and there it stayed for a while. You let me babysit, play, and helped me learn…you were always an encouraging, patient teacher who explained things until I got it. Even with simple things like card games heh. You were never selfish and always happy to contribute to my happiness. #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 25; After an awesome night owning The Royal we ended up back in the office (aka playground) watching Trent from punchy, drawing on everything (picture frames) and everyone, playing prankstas, chair races in the garage (could even be the night Beryl ended up losing control and getting stuck in the bin, and beech and charlie crashed there, one of them literally…down the stairs)?…good times! You gave me so much hassle for posting this photo and ruining any little chance you had, so here it is again to stir you up :) #zakncheese #30daysofzak

Day 25; After an awesome night owning The Royal we ended up back in the office (aka playground) watching Trent from punchy, drawing on everything (picture frames) and everyone, playing prankstas, chair races in the garage (could even be the night Beryl ended up losing control and getting stuck in the bin, and beech and charlie crashed there, one of them literally…down the stairs)?…good times! You gave me so much hassle for posting this photo and ruining any little chance you had, so here it is again to stir you up :) #zakncheese #30daysofzak